Thursday, October 27, 2016

Letter #2 -"I think I'm gonna like it here" -Annie

SO MUCH TO SAY.

First things first: I absolutely love the Mandarin language. After years of struggling through it, I thought it would be one of the hardest things I had to do when I got here. It's actually one of my most favorite. Our first lesson, our teacher Gui Lao Shi showed us a video of an investigator telling us about himself. With our very limited vocabulary and some help with the teacher, we were able to figure out almost everything he said!!! It was so incredible. The gift of tongues was helping us already.

The gift of tongues is so real, by the way. I wouldn't have such a love for the language without it. Flashcards and memorizing are so fun to me now. I can't tell you how amazing it is to see Mandarin words pop up in my daily conversation and when I write in my journal at night. The other day I learned that putting 'le' at the end of a sentence makes it past tense, and I don't know why but I thought that was so cool! This language makes me incredibly happy.

Our district is great, there's only 6 of us so we're way smaller than the other districts. But the other sisters in our zone were so happy to have 4 new sisters come in! There's 11 sisters in our zone and at least twice as many elders. Some of the elders are pretty crazy, like bouncing off the walls. Our elders are way chill but we'll see how they are in 9 weeks. All the other districts have told us we'll probably get more done because we have more sisters than elders lol. 

The 6 of us in our district have gotten to be a kind of family. On Saturday we had like 3 hours of straight study time, reading flashcards out loud over and over with our terrible pronounciation. We got as much done as we could but got pretty delirious towards the end. We also spent a lot of time talking and laughing. We should probably get better at being productive but it was pretty fun. Here we study and study all the time. Learning the Mandarin translation for English words is easy but learning the tones is definitely not, so that's what I spend most of the time working on.

Out of the 6 of us, 4 of us came in with some kind of Mandarin experience. Sister Young and I probably had the most knowledge, we both have a fairly good vocabulary and are the best at pronouncing words. So yay! Those years of Manadarin in school came in handy after all. 

Also, if you've ever gone a couple days without a phone, it's incredibly liberating. I would highly recommend it. Our teacher's phone buzzed in class one day and it was so weird since we hadn't heard that sound in such a long time.

Last night at devotional Elder Bednar spoke to us! He and his wife talked about going through general conference talks and picking out the doctrinal principle, the invitation, and the promised blessings. I totally want to do this now, I think it'll help with watching conference so much. My district also joined the choir and got to sing Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer for Elder Bednar. It was amazing and it was broadcast to all 14 other MTC's which was way cool!! The choir director is hilarious and makes it all awesome. The MTC is really a place where the spirit dwells, I'm still getting used to all the rules but I know they're for the best and I really do love it here. I've learned so much already, it's amazing.

Here we call everyone by their Chinese names, mine is Deng Jie Mei, since Jie Mei is the word for sister.  (it's driving me nuts that I can't figure out how to put tones on my typed words). My companion Sister Hoskins (Huo Jie Mei) is awesome, we're having a lot of fun here. She's in her last two weeks of ankle surgery recovery since she broke her ankle twice. :( So she needs someone who can walk a little slower with her, and I need someone who knows where we're going, since I would constantly be getting lost on campus without her. So we work together perfectly :)

Finally and most important, Sister Hoskins and I are teaching an investigator! His name is Wang Xiao Yuan and although we're pretty sure he's actually just pretending to be an investigator to help us practice, it still makes me really nervous. He'll talk to us in Mandarin and we'll pick out a word or two, then frantically flip though our Mandarin dictionaries looking for a way to respond! It's frustrating because he asks great questions and I'd love to answer them in English but I don't know how! Sister Hoskins and I work great together when it comes to these lessons, she's so positive and excited. She's usually able to understand what I can't and tell me something in English so that I can quickly try to string together some words in Mandarin. It's such a miracle that we're able to understand what we can! Every time we teach I feel the spirit. I know that when I don't know what to say, God gives me the words. It's the spirit that spreads the gospel- we're just the tools to make it happen. He speaks through us and it's so incredible to know that we're doing a sacred work. I'm so happy to have finally begun life as a missionary. I know this is exactly where I'm meant to be.

Anyway, sorry that was long. If you know me I tend to get distracted. Thanks for listening to me ramble. If you want to write back I highly recommend DearElder.com!!! you type up a letter, then it's printed here at the MTC and I get it the next day. That way I can have the letter all week and respond on Wednesday. Plus I'll be here for 9 weeks so I'd absolutely love to hear from you! Mail is the best.

This church is true. Being a missionary is wonderful. have a great week. I love you all! 
Sister Daynes

Letter #4 - "And when threeeee weeks are up..." -Fiddler on the Roof

If we were English speaking, we would've left this morning. But nope! We're still here. And honestly I am loving it. But sometimes we'll hear missionaries here at the MTC say, "Oh, I'm just English speaking." Here in the Mandarin district we sometimes just want to look those people in the eye and say "AND DO YOU KNOW HOW LUCKY YOU ARE?!?!?!?!"

That was a bit of an exaggeration. But seriously, there are so many times in lessons when Sister Hoskins and I want to say something but we can't because we just don't know the Mandarin vocab. And yet I wouldn't change my call in an instant. I love the Mandarin language (aka zhongwen) so much more than I thought I would, and we are really progressing!!! I can now recite the entire missionary purpose and Joseph Smith's First Vision in memorized Mandarin. Plus I can bear testimony that the most powerful being in the universe is your Father in Heaven, and that He knows you personally and He loves you. So much. That's pretty cool.

Also, the other night I apparently woke up two of the other sisters in my room because I was talking loudly in my sleep. According to them, all I said was "Yesu Jidu!" Which is Jesus Christ in zhongwen. So I guess I'm now dreaming the gospel in zhongwen too!

Two of our districts left for Taiwan on Tuesday, leaving only 6 sisters left in the entire zone. Our new STLs (Sister Training Leaders) Sister Clark and Sister Loo are moving into our room today since we have six beds. So now things are going to be way cramped which will take some getting used to. But on the upside we are getting 10 new sisters and 8 new elders today!!! We're so excited to have new people in the zone! It'll be weird not being the newest in the zone. But our branch president said "When the new people get here, just talk in a lot of Mandarin to freak them out." We're excited for that. XD

One of the things we say a ton in the Mandarin district is jia you. Although I can't write tones on that, it literally means "add oil" and is basically good luck. So jia you to you in your trials this week! I believe in you. You can do it!

This week our lovely resource teacher Wu Lao Shi said something that I think changed my life. She said, "We are to God as a little child helping his mother make cookies. The child wants to help so badly, so the mom lets him crak the egg. But the child gets shells in the dough. But then the mom picks the shells out and everything is ok again." That is what we are. We are God's children and he loves us so incredibly much. He will forgive us over and over again every time we make a mistake. You are a child of God. How incredible is that?

I love you all! Keep writing, and as always send me any questions if you have them!
Sister Daynes

1) Sister Young's mom sent us a GIANT box this week filled with nothing but kitkats!
2) Sister Hoskins and I in front of the temple
3) All the sisters in our district before they left!











Letter #3 from Sister Daynes -"Ready for the Fall" -Imagine Dragons

This week's song is because I have never seen leaves like these and it's stunning.

The zhongwen is getting better every day! Miracles happen here at the mtc, i know it. Most surprising is how much language we've picked up. But we still have sooooooo far to go.

We walked into class one day to find our investigator, Wang Xiao Yuan, with a name tag on. None of us were surprised to find out that he's actually our teacher who has been posing as an investigator, though maybe we felt a little betrayed. His real name is Brother Daoqi and he's hilarious- very different from the timid investigator we had been teaching and it took some getting used to.

We were in line for breakfast one morning and the elder behind me was saying to his companion, "you haven't heard that song?" and he started singing "Marian the Librarian" from The Music Man. So...I started singing along. It was 6:30 AM but I'm sure we sounded beautiful. The elder laughed and said "You made my day!" my companion probably thought i was nuts but that's never stopped me before!

We played ladder golf for exercise one morning and we had way more fun than we should've. Probably because there's not a ton to do here haha. We take joy in the little things.

So this week was kinda hard because although my companion and i like each other, our roommates have really not been getting along. It's made me really sad because why can't everyone just be kind to each other? And since my companion and I have different opinions it's driven a tiny wedge between us. Plus it totally killed the spirit in our room. It got bad enough that it was hard fro me to focus in class because I was so worried about them.

Finally we all sat down and talked things out. i tried to mediate and it was one of the scariest things i can remember having to do. Things are way better now, but still not great and it still kinda stresses me out.

But you know what? I learned that I need to put my trust in the Lord. He is all-knowing and has all-encompassing love. I know there's something he needs us all to learn from this, so I'm putting it in his hands. I'm doing the absolute best I can, and I know that's all I can do and the Lord will handle the rest. He would never leave me alone to solve problems without his help. (Psalms 2:129:10, 36:7, 62:8) So when I put my worries in his hands, I can smile and know that everything will be ok, and I can go on my way rejoicing. 

Much love,
Sister Daynes

1) Sis Hoskins and I
2) Us four enjoying beautiful Utah
3) FALL IS SO GORGEOUS!!!!!










Letter #1 from Sister Daynes - I'm alive!

Hey everyone! I'm here in the MTC (Missionary Training Center) and things have been good so far. I've been super tired and feeling a little bit sick still but hopefully I will get over that soon! Yesterday I got to the MTC late because an ammonium nitrate truck rolled over and closed all the freeways and they were afraid of an explosion. Just. What. So traffic was super insane. I thought I would be really stressed about being late but I wasn't, somehow I knew things would be totally fine.

I got checked in, unfortunately I missed my first language class but I heard the last 20 seconds of it before we went to a general meeting. Hearing the language made me feel so good inside, for some reason it felt like coming home. My companion was super happy to see me when I showed up! Her name is Sister Hoskins and she's from St. George. She is a super duper Utahn but is way sweet and happy and thankfully we get along great! The other sisters in our district are really sweet too. There's only 6 of us in our district, 4 sisters and 2 elders. 

So far we've been listening to a lot of people teaching us stuff. It's been hard to pay attention because I'm so tired but miracles can happen!!! Also the spirit is so strong here, everyone is so dedicated to the work and I love it! Anyway so I'll be sending these emails out once a week, our preparation day (or day off) is Wednesday so that's when you'll hear from me next. Feel free to email if you have any questions! Or if eventually you get bored of me, I won't be offended if you stop reading. 18 months is a long time haha.

Quote of the Day:

"But Mr. Hotchkiss--!!!"
"Hoskins, dear, Hoskins."
-Arsenic and Old Lace